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FINISHED FILES ARE THE RESULT OF YEARS OF SCIENTIFIC STUDY COMBINED WITH THE EXPERIENCE OF MANY YEARS. |
How many "f's" do you see in this statement? (take a few minutes to figure it out) The problem is that when you immediately responded you were only looking for the f's in the words which are nouns. What you forgot was to include the prepositions. This is a problem with our perceptions. We make internal assumptions or small choices on what we are allowing our brain to see even though our eyes are seeing the whole picture, our filtering system limits what we actually comprehend or fully understand.
Now here is a test of your perception to keep you
off balance:
You
may or may not be able to tell if the lines are parallel. This again is due to
the distortion coming from the confounding of the transfer of the decoded
messages from the left and right side of the brain.
Here is one
which can get you very confused or at least "swimming"
When
you look at this picture you will begin to have a very difficult time counting
the dots. Why is this so? You can never count on things to be static or
literal. There is ambiguity in life and it is important to be willing to accept
this fact of life. Things are never as clear as they seem.
Look at this picture:
Can
you explain why the circle in the middle on the left is the same size as the
circle in the middle on the right is? It is sure is important to not let the
surrounding circumstance cloud your perceptions about things. Just because every
one else in the group in one way, does not mean that the individual with whom
you are dealing is the same. It is important to be sure you are not caught up
with stereotypes which cloud your perceptions and thinking.
This
next picture you will need to take some time with. Look at the center of the
picture for a period of time. What do you think is going on between the left and
right side of your brain to finally get you to have the dot in focus? That is
right by focusing in on the black dot you are narrowing the field of vision for
both the left and right eye thus helping them come into an "agreement"
as to what the image is. Sometimes it is important to look at the trees
carefully and not just look at the forest. There may be some very important
discoveries to be made by the narrow focusing at times.
Now look at this picture:
Do
you see an old woman or young woman or can you see both? You know when you meet
people you have your initial impression. This impression can be completely
faulty until you take the time to really understand and fully comprehend whom
the person is that you are meeting. Going just by your initial impulse or
initial judgment, does not give that person a chance to fully demonstrate to
you, who that person is and what that person is really about. Remember: looks
can be deceiving.
Hey
how about this?
Look at this elephant and how many legs does it
really have? Wow it is really hard isn't it. Why you know in your head the
correct answer and yet your eyes are telling you something different. Is that
not how life is? You can have preconceived ideas about things but the evidence
when it is presented to you can be completely contradictory and not support your
preconception or assumptions. It is imperative to test your assumptions,
expectations, and preconceptions when dealing with solving problems, making
decisions and handling conflicts in your life.
Now Look at this picture:
Do
you see one or two faces or can you see all three? Sometimes you think you
really know what it is that you are perceiving to be real. That is until you
take a closer look. If you are willing to accept that dialectic reasoning-that
is being willing to look at two sides of every situation-is an important skill
when solving problems, making decisions or handling conflicts then you will be
able to see both the right and left side face as well as the overall face made
up from both sides of the picture. Remember you need to see the "whole
picture" before you can proceed to take actions on your solutions,
decisions, or conflict resolutions.
Now
how about this picture:
Do
you see the man playing the horn, or the woman's silhouette or both? When people
go about "touting their own horn" or acting in ways which are unseemly
or impulsive, it is often hard to see the beauty within them. Are you always in
a rush to make a quick assessment of a person on their brusqueness,
impulsiveness, or abrasiveness. Or do you take time to get to understand where
they are coming from so that you can see the beauty of who they are below the
surface they present to you?
Do
you see the skull or do you see the woman in the skull? When you are
looking at a frightening or scary problem do you get blinded from the
"good" that might really be involved in the issue? Do you see a crisis
or do you see a challenge? To be a creative problem solver and effective decision
maker it is imperative that you fully absorb what it is that you are dealing
with so that you can see both the minuses and pluses but also the good and the
bad in the situation. Hint: look into the eye(s) of the problem (the skull).
Now
look at this picture do you see the duck or the rabbit? If you only look at the
left side of things you will see the duck. But if you are on the right of things
you will see the rabbit. Right or left, conservative or liberal, black or white
are just perspectives which you bring to the situation. It is imperative to make
good decisions, solve problems, and settle conflicts that you are able to set
aside your strong biases so that you can get the whole picture into
perspective.
Look
at this picture. Do see you the face of the Native American Man or do you see the
back of the Native Alaska Man (Eskimo)? Are you so caught up sometimes with
seeing the issues after the fact, that you are only looking at them from behind
or do you face your problems head on? Do you take a proactive stance in dealing
with life or are you merely reactive?
This
picture requires you to focus on the four dots in the middle of the picture for
thirty seconds and then to close your eyes and tilt your head back. A circle of
light will appear and then an image in the circle will appear. This occurs
because of the encoding of the larger picture by our starring at the picture.
Many people feel this image is that of what they picture Jesus to look like. The
point of this picture is that what you think you are seeing is not what is being
picked up by your senses. You are not aware that your senses are picking up a
circle of white with an image of man in it until you close your eyes and tilt
your head back. How many times have you thought you knew what you saw and heard
only to find out later that what you thought you saw and heard was not what
really happened. Our senses play tricks on us and it is important for us to
validate, check out, and authenticate our perceptions of people, places, things,
problems, conflicts, and decisions before we take actions based on our
perceptions.
When
your dealing with problems, often times you can get so caught up with the forest
that you loose perspective of the trees involved. It is imperative that you are
totally awaken to all aspects of the problem which you are facing. Here is a
picture of a natural setting. At the same time there are 11 human faces in the
picture can you find them? If you are having problems finding them, then wake up
to the fact that there are many aspects of problems you are solving
which you are not picking up. Critical thinking requires you to put a face to
the problem and to identify all the faces of the problem involved. If you had no
problem picking out the 11 faces, then you have succeeded in training your self
to be more acute to your perceptions thanks to your work on this material.
Lastly
look at this book. Is the book looking towards you or away from you? When you
are facing problems or decisions is your mind an open or closed book? Are you
with it (the issue you are facing) or does it get away from you? To be effective
in your life it is important to deal with your problems, issues, conflicts, and
decisions head on. If you use all of your senses, are open, look at both sides
of the issue, are analytical, identify and question your assumptions and
stereotypes, brainstorm, think out of the box, and are organized in your
approach to dealing with your issues, then you will be successful.
It is my hope that you will have learned some important lessons by reviewing this site. You cannot always trust your initial perceptions because your brain has not caught up with all that it is decoding and translating. So please, slow down, be rational, test out your assumptions, let go of your stereotypes, and be open to reality the way it really is rather than the way you suspect or perceive it to be.
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