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 Patricia: A Success Story in Process

Patricia's Goals for Adulthood

  • Gain employment - In Fall 2003 Patricia hopes to be employed by the school district she graduated from, to assist exceptional education students through her use of sign language.
  • To learn to cook on her own - Beginning in summer 2003 Patricia hopes to learn enough to be able to cook her meals on her own.
  • To take care of her own living space - She hopes to learn enough to become self-sufficient in taking care of her own living space, be it at home with her parents or in a supported living apartment later on in life.
  • To learn to drive - due to the lack of sufficient public transit in her community, Patricia would love to learn to drive a car. This appears to be a stretch, but knowing Patricia there is nothing that stops her indefatigable spirit.
  • To meet the man of her dreams - Patricia has high standards in what she expects this man to be and she will not settle for less.
  • To meet Dolly Parton in person and get her autograph - Dolly Parton is Patricia's favorite star for her music and movies. Patricia would love to meet Dolly, tell her how much she loves her music and work, and have Dolly give her an autograph which she would cherish the rest of her life. Here is an excerpt from a May 23, 2003 letter from Patricia's father to the Dolly Parton Foundation in an effort to allow them to purchase tickets to attend a usually sold out Christmas Benefit Concert which Dolly performs every year at Dollywood in Pigeon Forge, Tennessee:

...let me tell you a little bit about our Patricia.  First and foremost, she adores Dolly Parton. She sings and signs (American Sign Language) to just about all of Dolly’s songs. Patricia is hearing impaired, but does not need signing to communicate. Remarkably, she has taught herself signing through systematic studying of sign books and memorizing the words. She decided on her own to do this so that she could help children that do have communication needs.

During the last year and a half, Patricia has used her signing skills and her wonderful personality in her internship as a teacher’s assistant in two elementary schools. She has worked with children that have disabilities and with a regular pre-school class. Every Saturday night, she is the caregiver at our church for a precious young lady who is blind and profoundly disabled.  They adore each other.  Patricia is teaching Amanda finger spelling that she learned from studying Helen Keller’s life.

Patricia will graduate from her high school here on June 6. She has been in regular classes since the third grade and has worked very hard to reach this Senior year and finally ..Graduation!  We are all very excited to know that she will be employed in our school district next year.  She again will be working with children with all kinds of disabilities.  That is her heart’s desire, to be with and love children that have challenges. 

I almost forgot to tell you that Patricia has Down Syndrome. As you can see from the enclosed photo, she is a beautiful little red-head.  Our family has looked at her as our special gift from God, and have always endeavored to help her meet her potential.

We really want to reward Patricia for her efforts.  It has taken many long hours of hard work over the years, but she has persevered. As one of our favorite Dolly songs says “She is a Brave Little Soldier.”  That song has meant so much to us, as I am sure it does to all the precious little ones that your Foundation reaches out to.  I can’t think of anything at all that would please and touch Patricia more than being able to see Dolly, especially if she could be with children that are needing to be encouraged.

I would be most grateful for any consideration that you could give towards helping Patricia get to see Dolly in the Christmas Benefit.  That would be an incredible reward for our Patricia...

...Thank you so very much for letting me tell you just a little bit about my very special little lady.

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