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Pictures of New York City: March 9-11, 2002

Tribute in Light Memorial New York City: March 11, 2002 [click on picture to enlarge]

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Introduction

On the weekend marking the sixth month anniversary of 9.11, we visited New York City to capture a picture of how the city and its people were doing after experiencing this major catastrophe. We were amazed at the resilience of the city's people. There were still funerals being held daily. Bodies were still being found at Ground Zero. Work was still moving rapidly at Ground Zero and there was a sense of the city trying to heal from its wounds. To show respect for its loved lost ones, two memorials were dedicated on March 11th. The first was "The Sphere" which was surrounded by a granite fountain in the center courtyard of the World Trade center. The Sphere was placed in the Hope Garden at Battery Park temporarily until the final WTC monument is built at the site. The second tribute is the twin beams of light "Tribute in Light" which will shine from March 11 until April 13, 2002.

"We can't do enough," Mayor Michael R. Bloomberg said in a tribute. "We can't say the right things. But let us never forget those that we have lost. Let us not lose sight of what we have to do again." The city is not forgetting its lost and yet has its eye on its survivors. The balancing act is amazing to witness. The city is grieving, healing, memorializing and yet is vibrant, living, and energizing. It is clear that the old Mayor Rudy Giuliani, new Mayor Mike Bloomberg, and New York State Governor Pataki have been real role models of "grace under pressure." Any place where there was a memorial being held March 11th, you would find these three men.

On March 9th, our visit to Ground Zero was moving and eye opening. It is so hard to imagine the magnitude of the destruction which occurred on 9.11 when you are living down in Tampa and limited to looking only at TV, Internet, magazine, or paper accounts. Getting close up and personal puts the "human face" on this tragedy. The Ground Zero is hallowed ground. It is clear that hundreds of bodies will not be recovered and that Ground Zero is their final resting place. The tedium of the work of raking through the rubble for remains is an incredible chore. This chore is an act of love which is done with patience, forbearance, and respect to the remains which are out there. We were stunned by the solemn mood, attitude, and demeanor which all observers and workers displayed while in and around Ground Zero. The observation deck is a wonderful beginning of a memorial for these lost victims and for the heroes involved in this event. Everything which we observed was clearly done to show compassion, understanding, and dignity for the survivors of these victim-heroes.

Our visit did include a chance to visit the city and those pictures are available in our Album on this site under: New York City Visit.

It is our hope and prayer that you look at these pictures to help you never forget why we are fighting the "War on Terrorism" and keep your mind and hearts open to "Never Forget" those hero-victims of 9.11.

Our prayers are with all the victims' loved ones and hope that this tribute will help them realize that people really do care about their tragic losses.

Jim and Connie Messina

Reactions to Site and Expressions of Support for New York City

  • Thank you for sharing your trip! Your introduction brought me to tears, knowing that every night I quietly sleep in my bed without always remembering the events of this tragedy. I have many friends who have traveled to see Ground Zero, and they too like you were humbled by witnessing the continued support, love and strength of this city and its people. The many jokes about "New Yorkers" will continue but the world knows only too well that these people have the "right stuff." - Cyndi
  • Thank you very much for sending this. It touched my heart. I have forwarded on to family and friends both here and in New York. - Midge
  • Doesn't it give you an added dimension to the enormity of it all? - Marleen - Our response: It was mind-blowing! The immensity of it all overwhelmed us! We are so grateful to have really seen it for what it was. We really get it now!
  • WOW!...but just an unbelievable collection of photo's and I'm sure memories. - Amy
  • Very good! I can only imagine the amount of emotion you could have had doing this visit. Thanks for sharing! - Dave
  • I have just completed my surrogate trip to NYC with you. What a memorial!! This must have been a very emotional trip. Thank you for taking the time and effort to share with so many of us that have been unable to actually be there in person. This is the next best thing... a phenomenal piece of work! My love and prayers go out...Gail  Our response: This was one additional way to help people not forget what happened on 9.11 and how many people's lives were impacted and changed from it.

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